Friday, February 23, 2007

SPRING PREVIEW

By OLIVENE GODFREY

The warm weather this past week has stirred our thoughts of spring and lifted our spirits. We can can barely wait for the greenery and flowers of spring's glory. I know we will have more cold snaps but they are usually brief. I regret that old age and arthritis prevents me from planting flowers in the soil. But,I can enjoy watching the patio flowers and green plants grow in their pots.

This week, I was reminded of past springs when my late mother and I would go to a nursery and browse in the large greenhouse and select pretty bedding plants for our gardens. I usually bought a couple of flowering plants in baskets, too. We would have the backseat of my car and the trunk filled with plants. After I returned home, I hurried through my chores and on my hands and knees, I planted the little plants that would grow into beautiful flowers in the yard.

A couple of years, I planted lots of flower seeds close together in my flower bed. When they came up and burst into bloom, they were a gorgeous sight. In the fall, I let the flowers go to seed and collected the seeds in brown paper bags which my late husband, Ralph, would hang in the garage to dry. In the spring, I gave bags of seeds to relatives and they had pretty gardens from the seeds.

Last year, son Barry planted wild flower seeds in a large patio container and they were very pretty.I will enjoy planning what kind of plants I want to add to the houseplants we take out to the patio in the spring. Barry does a good job of taking care of the plants. Unfortunately, all of the spring beauty plays havoc with our allergies.

One nice thing about winter is the morning view of the sunrises coming up over the mountain that can be viewed from our front windows. When we moved here in 1978, I made a lot of pictures of the sunrises and beautiful sky from our front porch with a Ricoh 35 mm manual camera. They came out great and I had three
of the pictures enlarged and they hang on the wall of my office.
Since childhood, photography was a hobby I enjoyed as I snapped pictures of all that happened around me. Barry bought me a Minolta automatic 35 mm camera a number of years ago. But, alas, my arthritic hands have ended my picture taking.

Son Barry also has a love of photography. He had cameras all during his childhood. Now he uses a digital camera and prints his own excellent pictures. We have stacks of photo albums
of family pictures. My mother wanted to be a professional photographer when she was a girl. She said her two big brothers laughed and told her that women didn't become photographers.
She gave up her dream but made many pictures of family over the years and some of them are in our albums.

This quote was published in Hugh Park's Atlanta Journal and Constitution column February 27, 1977 but is appropriate for today--"Live within your income and you'll live without worry, " said Herman Elder,"and without a lot of other things, too."

See you next time.

Sunday, February 18, 2007

THINKING OF LONG-TIME FRIEND, JULIA

By OLIVENE GODFREY

My long-time friend, Julia, has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease and Parkinson disease. We talk on the phone some and she is in good spirits considering the serious illnesses that have stricken her. We are the same age and since we first met we have been soul-mates. She is fortunate to have loving family members who are taking good care of her.

Julia and I have always been compelled to write and she is a poet and songwriter. Although, she had a long, successful business career, her heart was always with her music.
We are both widows now and also share some age-related things, such as falling asleep in front of the T.V. at night and using canes to walk, being hard of hearing,and the list goes on.

My late husband, Ralph, had Parkinson's and also had mild dementia. And, my heart aches for Julia's future and for all that lies ahead of her. But she has experienced great personal tragedies and become a stronger person. She is a person of courage and determination and she also has a keen sense of humor and is fun to be with.

I remember a night years ago when Julia and I went to a writer's group meeting in Dalton. On the way over there, rain came down in torrents and there was a film on my car's windshield, making it difficult for me to see to drive. Julia told me to stop at a little store which I did and she returned a few minutes later with a bottle of Coco Cola which she poured on the windshield and, presto!, the glass was clear. I told her that I learned something new every time I was with her.

She finished an heirloom small table for me and later gave me a refinished antique sewing machine wooden cover which I treasure and use as a magazine rack in the den.

I feel blessed to have Julia as a friend. I always knew I could call on her if I needed help and she would be there. I can only pray for her now and be here if she needs me.

See you next week.

Monday, February 12, 2007

SCARY CHOKING EPISODE

By OLIVENE GODFREY

I woke early last Sunday and went to the kitchen and started my morning routine by taking my prescribed medications. I swallowed the first pill and instantly knew something was horribly wrong. It seemed obvious that the pill had gone down the wrong way, causing intense pain in my throat and neck and chest. Instinctively, I started coughing vigorously and was still feeling awful and was really scared. Son Barry had gone out the previous night and was sleeping soundly and didn't hear all of my loud coughing sounds. And, from somewhere, I used all of my strength to try to throw up in the sink. And, it worked as the little pill popped out of my mouth. Never was I so relieved and I thanked God for saving me. Right away,I started feeling better. I vowed to be more careful when I swallow pills from now on.

Later, Barry and I went to Chatsworth and ate at the Village and then we went to the cometary where my late husband is buried and put an artificial bouquet on his grave. After a brief stop at Ingles for a few items, we returned home. During our trip, we saw three acquaintances we haven't seen in a long time and that was a pleasant surprise.

The weather was cold on Sunday but the sunshine was bright and I wore my new stylish sunglasses. I had been wearing a pair of large ones that were made to be worn over regular glasses and looked awful but was effective. I don't wear regular glasses since I had my cataract surgery except to read, so on a recent trip to the Dalton mall, Barry helped me select a new pair of sunglasses. When I put them on, I think of the elderly lady I encountered a while back outside the eye doctor's office who was wearing the big sunglasses and she grinned and said, "Stylish, ain't we?"And we both had a good laugh and went our separate ways.

The days are getting longer now in northwest Georgia and the jonquils are coming up and robins can be seen some days in our yard. The groundhog predicted that we will have an early spring and we are hoping he is right.

Two good quotes...."Conscience gets a lot of credit that should go to cold feet." By Gene Yasanek and, "A good scare can be worth more than good advice." By Arnold Glascow.

See you next time.

Monday, February 05, 2007

SNOW FELL IN GEORGIA'S HIGH COUNTRY & THOUGHTS ON BEING HAPPY & DINING AT THE PICCADILLY

By OLIVENE GODFREY

Last week,snow fell in North Georgia and as it is a rare occasion for us, it brought excitement, especially for the children who didn't have to go to school and played in the snow until it melted a few hours later. It only snowed about two inches but was more in the mountains and over in northeast Georgia.

When we here in northwest Georgia, hear the word, "snow",it brings to mind the Blizzard of '93 for many of us. I hope we don't ever have a repeat of that week when nearly two feet of snow paralyzed the area. My late husband, Ralph, and son Barry kept a fire going in the fireplace the four days we were without electric power, heat or fresh water. Now we are prepared for such an event, as we have a Coleman lantern, portable stove and kerosene heaters now but at that time we only had the fireplace for heat. We hope the '93 blizzard was a once in a lifetime experience for us.

I read years ago that people are about as happy as they decide to be. At that time, I disagreed with that comment. But, the thought has been in the back of my mind since I first read the words. Sometimes life deals us cruel blows and our hearts ache like a toothache and we don't think we can ever be happy again. Now I realize there comes a time for most people when we can either go on being unhappy or decide to be happy again. I came across this quote by George Crumbley, "As I get older, more and more happiness is waking in the morning and finding that nothing new hurts." I can relate to that. Seriously, if we keep an open mind and are alert to all around us, we can discover small things that bring us happiness.

For the first time in two years, Barry drove me up to the Hamilton Place mall in Chattanooga and we had a delicious lunch at the Piccadilly cafeteria. Since I fell and broke my right shoulder and arm in 2005, I haven't been able to venture very far from home without being very tired. I have felt better lately and decided yesterday that despite the cold weather I was ready to make the trip. The Piccadilly is about 50 miles from our house and I was tired when we returned home but enjoyed the day. I ate too much despite good intentions and had belly discomfort, to put it mildly, after returning home. But,
I had a good day and hope to go back again soon.

I like this quote by Christopher Morley, "There's something alive about a kitchen, the way it smells and sounds and feels. Maybe sick people would live longer if they sat in kitchens."