Monday, October 31, 2016

OLD TIMES

October 31, 2016

By Olivene Godfrey

It seems like old times....  I'm in the den which adjoins the patio with the glass door and large windows where I sat, and wrote my first blogs, before I moved to the combination sitting room and bedroom at the other end of our house.  The reason I'm in here is because Barry is installing black out curtains in my bedroom/sitting room.

The blinds I had let too much of the bright sunshine in and was sending me into a frenzy.  I hope these work as they were expensive and are a lot of trouble for Barry.

The home health nurse says my health is fine now, that I'm over my recent illness, even though I feel bad some days.  I still can't eat a lot of foods.  Barry told me this morning he wanted me to get my "taste" back before Thanksgiving as he doesn't want to cook a big meal just for himself.

When my late husband, Ralph, and I were married, I could only cook a few desserts.  So, we learned to cook together, trial and error.  When Barry was a small child, I started writing freelance and often took him with me on assignments and we would usually be home in time for me to cook supper.  Thanksgiving was always a big meal.  I would start cooking several days before the holiday.

Thanksgiving dinner would be the only dinner Ralph would highly compliment me for.  I said something to him about it once.  He said, "When a meal is good, you should know it or I'd tell you".  He was a man of few words.  After he died August 20, 2002 I was exhausted from caring for him, so Barry started cooking the Thanksgiving day dinner.

Every year he has improved and cooked a better dinner.  I am praying that I'll feel better by then.

Barry got the curtains installed and seem to be working fine.  He keeps opening the curtains.  I complain and he says, "It's like a dark hole in here, I like the sunshine"!  I tell him I'm sensitive to light now.  I don't know why but it sends me up the wall!

See you next time.  Comments welcome.  (Edited and typed by Tam.)

Monday, October 24, 2016

SEVERE UTI

October 24, 2016

By Olivene Godfrey with Tambra Little contributing

Some of you know I am in the process of recovering from a severe bout with a urinary tract infection (UTI).  I was in the hospital for awhile.  I am back home now and my long time friend and caregiver, Tam is caring for me weekdays, with son, Barry taking care of me weekends and nights.  The antibiotic I was taking made me very nauseated and I haven't completely recovered from it.  So, I still can't eat much and have lost some weight.

Tam will explain how the UTI affected me:  At the beginning Barry and I thought Olivene had a stroke.  She was hallucinating and quite agitated and not making much sense.  She didn't run any fever or seem to be in any pain.  After taking her to the emergency room, the staff quickly discovered it was a UTI and quite common for the elderly.  She was in the hospital about 5 days and on antibiotics.  They sent her home with home health coming to check on her.  After a couple of weeks, home health did a urinalysis and discovered the UTI wasn't going away.  We then ended up taking her back to the local hospital and she was there for another 3 days.  After changing her antibiotics three times, she was prescribed the one that would treat the infection.  She is much, much better.  Her mind is much clearer and she is getting her strength back.

I want to tell you how it affected me.  I know now the elderly, like me (I'll soon be 89), are often misdiagnosed with the early stages of Dementia or Alzheimer's, because symptoms include confusion, agitation and hallucinations.  Sometimes that's the only symptoms of a UTI in the elderly.

I was scared and Barry and Tam say they were afraid I was losing my mind.  While I was in the hospital Barry talked with Dr. Mitchell Wilson, Medical Director of Murray County Hospital.  He advised that it was a possibility and prompted us to see a Neurologist, which I have an upcoming appointment.  I'd like to commend and thank the doctors and nurses of Murray County Hospital.  They were very professional and helpful.  Also, Amedisys Home Health, which is still coming to see me weekly, or as needed.

I'm still not able to eat any kind of sweet food.  It still makes me nauseated.  But, salty foods, especially Premium Saltine Crackers taste delicious.  Now we add peanut butter sometimes.  I have also added toasted cheese sandwiches.  Barry is planning to fix me grits for breakfast tomorrow (Sunday).  For years, I've had a fried egg white sandwich on Sunday night for supper.  I'm going to try it again.

I'll keep you posted on my recovery.  Please keep me in your prayers.  See you next time.  Comments welcome.  (Edited and typed by Tam.)